Steve is a former Teamster in the movie/TV industry and bodyguard to celebrities. He is well trained in personal security and uses this page to offer his tips. So, we invite you periodically to check back here as we post Steve’s advice and suggestions on how we can safeguard our selves, our homes, and our families from the bad guys!
~Eowyn
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“Dire Warnings and 100 Items You Need to Survive,” Jan. 2, 2012.
Steve’s Security Goofup and a Lesson in Humility
“How not to have your home burglarized,” August 2, 2011.
“Electronic Pickpocketing and How to Protect Your Credit Card,” December 11, 2010.
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How to tell if a mirror is really a two-way snoop mirror:
“No Space, Leave the Place,” December 4, 2010.
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Top 100 Items to Disappear First During a National Emergency 10/26/2010
I just ran across this handy list, and thought it would be nice to add.
See how many you have on hand. Obviously you probably can’t have all, but the
More you have , the better you’ll be if things go Real Bad, Real Quick.
1. Generators (Good ones cost dearly. Gas storage, risky. Noisy…target of thieves; maintenance etc.)
2. Water Filters/Purifiers
3. Portable Toilets
4. Seasoned Firewood. Wood takes about 6 – 12 months to become dried, for home uses.
5. Lamp Oil, Wicks, Lamps (First Choice: Buy CLEAR oil. If scarce, stockpile ANY!)
6. Coleman Fuel. Impossible to stockpile too much.
7. Guns, Ammunition, Pepper Spray, Knives, Clubs, Bats & Slingshots.
8. Hand-can openers, & hand egg beaters, whisks.
9. Honey/Syrups/white, brown sugar
10. Rice – Beans – Wheat
11. Vegetable Oil (for cooking) Without it food burns/must be boiled etc.,)
12. Charcoal, Lighter Fluid (Will become scarce suddenly)
13. Water Containers (Urgent Item to obtain.) Any size. Small: HARD CLEAR PLASTIC ONLY – note – food grade if for drinking.
16. Propane Cylinders (Urgent: Definite shortages will occur.)
17. Survival Guide Book.
18. Mantles: Aladdin, Coleman, etc. (Without this item, longer-term lighting is difficult.)
19. Baby Supplies: Diapers/formula. ointments/aspirin, etc.
20. Washboards, Mop Bucket w/wringer (for Laundry)
21. Cookstoves (Propane, Coleman & Kerosene)
22. Vitamins
23. Propane Cylinder Handle-Holder (Urgent: Small canister use is dangerous without this item)
24. Feminine Hygiene/Haircare/Skin products.
25. Thermal underwear (Tops & Bottoms)
For rest of list pls GO HERE
With Much Thanks To Josey Wales.
Contributed by Josey Wales
Monday, October 25, 2010 7:57
~Steve~ 10/26/2010
Here’s a great article I found On Who Lives and Who Dies in Disasters. See what they all had in Common. It just may save your life some day.
Steve (8/18/10)
THE 12 RULES OF SURVIVAL
By Laurence Gonzales
There’s an excellent article by Chuck Baldwin on how to survive if everything falls apart. CLICK HERE.
~Steve (6/16/10)
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Report #7: HOW NOT TO BECOME A VICTIM OF CARJACKING
Carjacking of parked vehicles depends on the car owner being inattentive to their surroundings. Like street robbers , carjackers prefer the element of surprise. Most victims say they never saw the carjacker until he appeared at their car door. To reduce your risk of being carjacked, here are some common-sense pointers to remember:
First and foremost, you have to get out of the habit of going through life in Condition Duh!, totally unaware of your surroundings.
Always, always, be in Condition Yellow – a hightened state of awareness. Lift your head and look around. If you see something that does not look right, it probably is not. Trust your instincts!
Here are specific anti-carjacking tips:
- Always park in well-lighted areas, especially if you plan to arrive/leave after dark.
- Don’t park in isolated or visually obstructed areas near walls or heavy foliage.
- If you’re a woman driving alone, use valet parking or an attended garage.
- As you walk to your car, be alert to suspicious persons sitting in cars.
- Ask for a security escort, if you are alone at a shopping center.
- Watch out for young males loitering in the area, handing out flyers, etc.
- If someone approaches you as you’re walking to your car, change direction or run to a busy store.
- Follow your instincts if they’re telling you to walk or run away to a busy place.
- As you approach your vehicle, look under, around, and inside your car.
- If it looks safe, open the car door, enter quickly, and lock the doors.
- Don’t make yourself a target by turning your back while loading packages into the car.
- Make it your habit to always start your car and drive away immediately. I have seen so many people just sit in their car with unlocked doors, fiddling around, making calls, whatever. You are an easy target sitting there. So, after you get in your car, get moving!
- Teach and practice with your children to enter and exit the car quickly.
- In the city, always drive with your car doors locked and windows rolled up.
- When stopped in traffic, leave enough room to maneuver and escape, if necessary.
- If you are bumped in traffic by young males, be suspicious of the “accident.” Don’t get out of your car. Instead, wave or signal the car that bumped you to follow your car. Drive to a gas station or a busy place, and then get out of your car.
- If you are ever confronted by an armed carjacker, don’t resist!
- Give up your keys or money, if demanded, without resistance.
- Don’t argue, fight or chase the robber. You can be seriously injured.
- Never agree to be kidnapped. Drop the cars keys, and run and scream for help.
- If you are kidnapped and forced to drive, consider crashing your car near a busy intersection so bystanders can come to your aid.
- Call the police immediately to report the crime and provide detailed information.
~Steve (4/11/2010)
Report #6: WHEN YOU GO ON VACATION
Or….I swear, honey, I was not staring at that girl in the thong
One of the times your home is most vulnerable is when it is left empty for an extended period of time. Darkened windows, mail, newspapers piled up in the driveway, and closed windows in warm weather all advertise your absence to a potential burglar.
Here are some tips to secure your home while you’re away:
- The best protection for your home during your absence is to have a house sitter. A friend or relative you trust staying at your house can take care of your pets and/or plants in addition to making sure the house is inhabited.
- If you don’t have a house sitter, stop your mail and any newspaper or other delivery. Nothing announces an empty home better than a stack of newspapers or an overflowing mailbox. Ask a nearby neighbor to pick up any packages delivered while you’re gone.
- Have a neighbor check on your house/apartment while you’re away — turning on lights, radios or TVs, and opening and closing curtains will give your home the appearance of someone home.
- If you don’t have someone house sit or check your home while you’re away — perhaps even if you do — you should keep not only lights but a TV or radio on a timer. If you’re like me and have your TV on almost all the time you’re home [NOTE: I don't watch it, it's just background noise], the absence of the sound and that glowing light in the windows announces that you’re not there.
- Make sure whoever is checking your home while you’re away knows how to work your alarm system and whom to call in case of a problem.
- If you have a garden or plants on your balcony, make sure someone is watering the plants regularly or put the plants where they can’t be seen. Plants turning yellow and slowly dying due to lack of water also announce your absence.
- If you rent, check your lease. Many landlords require that you notify them if your apartment is going to be left empty for any period of time. This is so they can enter in case of emergency even if they can’t reach you. If you’ve got a house sitter, this isn’t necessary.
-Steve (2.27.2010)
Report #5: IF/WHEN THINGS GO TO HELL IN A HANDBASKET
Survival tips in a societal breakdown.
Click HERE.
-Steve (2.20.2010)
Report #4: AVOIDING VIOLENT CRIMES
Or let’s not become a statistic!
There are three ways to go through life. Borrowing from Homeland Safety’s color-coded terrorist threat warning system, let’s call them the Three Conditions: Red, Yellow, and….
The first and most critical is Condition Red. It means you are in imminent danger — it’s fight or flight time. I hope you already have a plan to defend yourself. If not, you’re in deep doo doo. But don’t worry as I will, in a later post, discuss some methods of defending you and your love ones. We’ll discuss both lethal and non lethal options. Did you know that many everyday objects can be used as weapons?
The second level is Condition Yellow, which means a heightened sense of awareness. This is the condition you must live your life in. I’m not trying to turn you into a paranoid who’s constantly looking under garbage can covers. But you should at all times have your heads up, aware and alert about your surroundings, with your eyes forward, scanning ahead and around you. Walk with confidence, hands free. If something does not feel right, trust your instincts, they are usually right. Just being alert and confident lets the bad guys know you are not a good target. They will move on and pick on someone else – those in the third condition.
The third is Condition Clueless or Condition DUH!!! Sadly, these are the people who make up crime victim statistics. They walk with their heads down, clueless and oblivious to their surroundings, not noticing the junkie hiding behind the car next to theirs.
So which Condition do you live in? Can you make some improvements so as not to become a statistic? Begin by walking with a confident air and your shoulders squared!
How to Prevent Being Sexually Assaulted:
- Use your initials instead of your first name on mail boxes and phone listings.
- Avoid being alone in an apartment laundry room or parking garage.
- Never admit on the telephone or at the door that you are alone.
- It is risky to accept a ride home from someone you have just met, just like your mom told you!
- If you decide to resist your attacker, remember that your goal is to incapacitate him long enough to run to safety and get help.
- If you are a victim of sexual assault, call the police immediately. Do not bathe or change clothes because you may destroy vital DNA evidence.
How to Avoid Being Robbed:
- Do not carry valuable items or large amounts of money.
- Always think ahead. For example, when traveling at night, have your keys ready to start your car or enter your house.
- If you are confronted by a robber, the best thing to do is to cooperate. If you resist, there is a greater chance that you or a loved one may be hurt or KILLED.
- If the robber has a gun, even you have a gun and can get to it without getting you or a loved one killed, give it up. Give everything up. What’s the worst that can happen? The robber uses your credit and ATM cards or steals your car. With the credit cards, you’re not responsible for any charges you didn’t make once you report the theft to the credit card company. As for your car, the robber most likely will abandon it and police will return the car to you. And if your car remains lost, hey, that’s what insurance is for! Remember this: You can replace anything in life except your life or a loved one’s life.
How to Avoid Violent Crimes at Bank ATMs:
- When using an automatic bank teller, always be watchful of any suspicious people around you.
- The chances of being robbed at night are much greater, especially if you are alone.
- If you find someone waiting and watching around an ATM, do not use it. Leave the area and report the incident to the police immediately. You could save someone else from being a victim of crime.
How to be safe in city streets: Use Common Sense!
- Stay in well lighted, busy areas.
- Avoid walking alone and avoid known trouble spots.
- When you carry a purse, hold it close to your body instead of by the handles. Do not wrap purse straps around your wrist because if a robber snatches your purse, you can get hurt in a struggle.
- Carry only what you need in a purse or wallet, not everything you have.
- Avoid using shortcuts through dark alleys, fields, or vacant lots.
- If you think you’re being followed, cross the street and change directions a few times. Go quickly to a well-lighted place with lots of people. Do not go home. You don’t want an attacker to know where you live.
-Steve (1.21.2010)
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Report #3: AVOIDING CRIMES WHEN PARKING
(or How not to be slapped with a big lawsuit)
Here are my suggestions for property owners — apartments, condos, offices, shops, malls – on ensuring safety in parking lots and garages:
How to Prevent Theft and Vandalism
- Wherever possible, provide each dwelling with its own locked garage within the property boundaries. Locked garages outside the boundaries or well-lit and visible common car parks are the next best thing.
- Where private garages are not feasible, a car-port or driveway parking is preferable to grouped parking away from dwellings.
- As a general rule, underground or multi-story car parks should be avoided, as they are breeding grounds for vandalism and crime. If they already exist, danger could be minimized by limiting entry points and providing them with sturdy locked gates. Alternatively, each resident could be provided with a lockable garage in their own space, with robust, vandal-proof metal doors — garages within garages, so to speak. Alternately, users can be provided with a secure lock or a plastic key card that operates electronic doors.
- Grouped car parks should be avoided in high-crime areas. If they cannot be avoided, they should be within view of some dwellings; they should be equipped with sturdy gates or tilt doors, and should never be sited near alleyways.
- Open car parks should be small and within view of dwellings and visitors’ car parks should be clearly identifiable, well lit, and visible from dwellings.
How to Prevent Rape, Assault, Robbery
- To make car parks safer, planners should provide direct access from parking areas to the entrance of dwellings.
- Car parks should be no further than 197 ft (60 meters) from dwellings, and the path should be well lit and free from shrubbery.
- Visitors’ car parks should be well lit, clearly identifiable, and visible from dwellings.
- Access to enclosed car parks should be limited to residents by some form of electronic entry control device if possible.
- If it is desirable to limit access to dwellings, make sure access via car parks is monitored as well.
- In high-crime areas, advanced technological surveillance methods may be needed in car parks. For example, an infrared unit is available which detects the presence of intruders – but not cats and dogs – by body heat, and automatically switches on all lights in the car park and turns them off after 15 to 20 minutes.
~Steve (1.9.2010)
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Report #2: PROTECTING YOUR CHILD
Children are our most valuable resource. Therefore, it is absolutely necessary that we take positive measures to insure their safety and prevent them from becoming victims of crime.
Parents, you must never leave your children alone! — not at home, in a vehicle, at play, or anywhere. Here are some tips to ensure their safety:
- Define what a STRANGER is. Let your kids know that just because they see someone everyday (mailman, paperboy, neighbor, etc.), it does not mean these people are not strangers.
- Teach your children their full name, your name, full address, and phone number, including area codes. Teach them how to use a phone.
- Teach your children the “What if…?” game, making up different dangerous situations that they might encounter and helping them play out what they would do in that situation.
- Take the time to talk to your children and be alert to any noticeable changes in their behavior or attitude toward an adult or teenager; it may be a sign of sexual abuse.
- Set up a password, e.g., “Jellybean,” that only you and your child know.
- Set up a notification procedure with your child’s school or day care center if your child does not show up on time.
- Inform your child’s school or day care center who other than yourself can pick up your child. The school should not release your kid to just anyone who shows up claiming to be a relative or close friend, and saying that you had asked them to pick up your child because you’re running late or some such BS. Now if it’s a legitimate emergency and you had asked your friend or neighbor to help out, they will give the correct answer when your child asks them for the password. If they don’t no the password, your child will know to run to the nearest adult for help. True story: I once asked my next door neighbor, a lady who is like an aunt to my son, to pick him up at the bus stop, but I forgot to give her the password! Sheesh, my son grilled her for ten minutes, then asked for her cell phone to call me to confirm. Smart kid, eh? Statistics show child abductions, more often then not, are committed by a family member or a known acquaintance.
- Teach your children that their body is private and no one has the right to touch them in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable. If anyone touches them in a wrong way, they should firmly say “NO!,” run away, and tell someone they trust.
- YOUR KID MUST NEVER EVER GET INTO A CAR WITH A STRANGER. You must drill this point into your kid’s head. I don’t care if it means ripping his or her arm off and beating them over the head till they understand how important this point is. OK, just kidding about ripping limbs off, but you get my drift. You must drill that into their mushy little still developing “I Know Everything” little Einstein brains. Tell them these Degenerate Scumbag Lowlife Sacks of Human Excrement will offer candy, ask for their help to find a lost kitty or puppy. Drill it in your kid’s head that, no matter what the stranger says, your kid must turn the other way and scream at the top of their lungs “Fire!” Screaming “Help!” is useless because nobody wants to get involved. But it’s been proven that when you scream “Fire!,” people will pay attention. Your kid should fast in the opposite direction and make as much noise as possible. These low-life degenerates do not want to be caught and will not chase after the kid. They will just wait and hunt another day, but your child would have escaped.
- Here is a tricky thing to teach your children and it will be scary….. I taught my son that even if the low-life scumbag has a GUN, he should still run as fast as he can. Do not be afraid of the gun. The pervert is a coward and the last thing he wants to do is to get caught. He will not shoot!!!!! because that would only draw attention to himself.
I know you think it’s always some other kid on the milk carton, and nobody wants to have this conversation with their child. But you must. If you love them, you must prepare and protect them. FBI statistics on the chances of a safe return of a child that has been abducted are not good. So, the thing to do is to make sure your child will NEVER be a victim!
One last thing: This is difficult to teach your child, especially if he or she is very young. But if you start now, it will get easier with time. Teach your children to be aware of their surroundings. Lift their heads up from playing DS or some other gadget. (Yeah, right, good luck with that!) Teach them to notice if a car is slowing down, or if someone is following them. TEACH THEM TO LISTEN TO THEIR INNER VOICE AND TO TRUST THEIR INSTINCTS.
Oh well, I did say that this last part would be tough. LOL
~Steve (1/1/2010)
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(or as my Son calls it, the magic wall that gives you money)
ATM cash machines have been incorporated in our way of life. They offer a real convenience to those on the run but at the same time offer an element of risk. Using an ATM machine safely requires awareness and a little planning. Just because an ATM machine is open and available 24-hours a day doesn’t mean it is safe to use it. Most ATM robberies occur at night between 8:00 PM and midnight. ATM robbers are usually males under 25 years of age and most work alone. ATM robbers usually position themselves nearby waiting for a victim to approach and withdraw cash. Most ATM robbery victims are women and were alone when robbed. Most claim that they never saw the robber coming. Most ATM robbers used a gun or claimed to have a concealed weapon when confronting the victim and demanding their cash.
If you or your family members use ATM cash machines on a regular basis, here are some tips that can make the process a little safer:
- Use only ATM machines in well-lighted, high-traffic areas. If lights around the ATM are not working, don’t use that machine. Choose an ATM that looks and ‘feels’ safer, even if it is a couple of miles out of the way. Don’t use ATM machines that are remote or hidden such as being located behind buildings, behind pillars, walls, or away from public view. Beware of obvious hiding places like shrubbery or overgrown trees. ATM robbers like to have the element of surprise and no witnesses. Robbers like good escape routes like nearby freeway on-ramps or high speed thoroughfares.
- Try and limit your use to daylight hours. Take someone with you after hours, if you can.
- When you drive up to an ATM location, scan the area for any suspicious persons. If you see anyone suspicious standing nearby or sitting in a car, drive away.
- When you approach an ATM on foot be prepared and have your access card ready.
- Memorize your personal PIN number to prevent loss and speed the transaction. After inserting your card and your PIN number keep an eye out behind you.
- Beware of offers for help from strangers during an ATM transaction. Never accept an offer to help or request for help from a suspicious male ahead of you at the machine. If anyone suspicious or seemingly dangerous approaches terminate your transaction and leave immediately, even if it means running away and leaving your ATM card in the machine. First, tell the suspicious male in a loud, firm voice to “back-off” and leave you alone. This is designed to startle the person and give you time to flee, if appropriate.
- Don’t use any ATM that appears to have been modified in any way (especially if the card intake slot seems to have a sleeve or wire); and especially beware of any ATM that has a brochure case near the keypad. These may be devices capable of detecting your PIN as you enter it.
- If a helpful stranger returns your card, be aware that it might have been cloned and your PIN compromised. The card can be cloned using the same technology that makes and remakes hotel room key cards. The card plus the PIN is all a crook needs to loot your account when you are traveling and unable to check what’s going on. Returning it is a ploy to lull you while the account is being looted.
- After you’ve received cash from the machine, don’t count your money in public. Put it away immediately, extract your card, and leave.
- If you use your car at a drive-thru ATM machine the same rules apply. First make sure your doors are locked, this goes for any time you are driving. Keep the car in gear, with your foot firmly on the brake, while using the ATM machine. Keep a close eye on your rear and side view mirrors during the transaction. Robbers almost always approach from the rear on the drivers side. If you see anyone approaching, drive off even if it means leaving your ATM card behind.
- If you are confronted by an armed robber, just give up your money without argument. This can not be stressed enough! Don’t fight with or attempt to follow the robber. You can replace everything in life, except life itself. The cash is not worth serious injury or death. Get to a safe place and call the police immediately.
~Steve (12/26/09)
UPDATE (1/17/2010):
- When using your debit card at the gas pump, hit the “Credit” button instead of “Debit”. It’s the same as Debit, but there’s no chance of your PIN being stolen if the pump has been rigged with a card reader.
- Try to avoid using ATMs in convenience stores because you have a much greater chance of having your PIN stolen by a rigged card reader. Instead, use either your bank’s ATM or a big retailer like Wal-Mart or Target to get cash back.
- And lastly, monitor your account online, periodically and regularly. Don’t wait for your monthly statement. Most banks and credit card companies can only hold you responsible for unauthorized charges of up to $50.00 if you report within 48 hrs of discovering the unauthorized charge. If you wait until after 60 days of noticing the theft and then report it, you can be held liable for the whole shebang. You’ll be wiped out. Everything gone. Zip, zero, zilch, nada. Got it?
So keep an eye on your accounts, before someone else does!
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Hey Guys and Gals, This is the first in a series of about 35 pieces on Personal and Home Safety I’ve put together. They are on various topics and hopefully they might help you from becoming a statistic. There really is nothing fancy here or expensive. Most are common sense and alot has to do with attitude. Some things I will recommend, should not cost more then 5-10 bucks. Till next time…..
Stay Safe……and Alert…….Steve
Nice piece & timely. As a recovering criminal lawyer, I’m all too familiar with the risks you describe.
We face the risk of invasion in various forms at all times. Homo S. may have conquered the cougar in the camp, but we humans are the world’s top predators. Stopping US is a major challenge.
I would add, based on my unpleasant experience in a high tourist area: Don’t use any ATM that appears to have been modified in any way (especially if the card intake slot seems to have a sleeve or wire); and especially beware of any ATM that has a brochure case near the keypad. These may be devices capable of detecting your PIN as you enter it.
The card itself can be cloned using the same technology that makes and remakes hotel room key cards. The card plus the PIN is all a crook needs to loot your account when you are traveling and unable to check what’s going on.
If for example, a helpful stranger returns your card, be aware that it might have been cloned and your PIN compromised. Returning it is a ploy to lull you while the account is being looted.
A final note. Check the sightlines behind you when entering the PIN. An accomplice with binoculars in a crowd from a slightly elevated position can catch your PIN number.
We are in two Darwinian races. (1) the pathogens that are evolving in pace with our antibiotics and (2) the forces of darkness who are constantly testing our practical defenses against invasion.
But don’t lose sleep. have faith in faith and in common sense…
JBG
Thanks, Jay, for your pointers! Coming from a former Public Defender, we’d be fools not to heed your advice
Jay, Thank you as I forget how smart these dregs of society have become. I was thinking along the line of common sense and forgot about high tech. These are very important pieces you have added to my tips, so pls people, take heed of Jay’s warnings also. Once again, Thank you Jay…..Steve
The last item, confronted by an armed robber, can’t be stated enough. Even if you carry it’s not always readily available. Every self defense class I’ve had always stresses that as well.
Thanks for the tips!
Thank you Steve for your wonderful advice! I have learned a lot! And thank you Jay for your terrific warnings as well.
DCG………You are so right….I do carry at all times., and I’ve been taught the same…know what…This is not the movies boys and girls, you are not Clint Eastwood. It takes 1/4 of a sec for the brain to send a signal to trigger finger to pull trigger…….you think you can draw, aim and then send that same 1/4 second signal before he shoots you oh…3-4 times…..see , you can’t win when he already has the drop on you. Keep calm, cooperate and give it up. It will save your life…….Steve
Very good advice!
May I also add this: if you need to get cash with your debit card, the safest thing to do is to ask for cash back when purchasing things at the local Target, Walmart, drugstore, or supermarket. It’s also more convenient; you don’t have to make a separate trip to the bank.
Thanks for the good advice, Monte! Glad you like this page
I may not agree with many of your writings (you’d be surprised to know what I DO agree with), but personal safety is something that everyone should concerned about, regardless of political beliefs.
Monte,Have to admit it, but I should have thought of that myself. Great tip and thanks.
Steve
See above.
I think this section is a great idea, and it’s a shame that kids today are in such great danger. Gone are the days when a kid could go bike riding around the neighborhood in the morning, go home for lunch, leave the bike on the front lawn while eating, find the bike in the same spot after lunch, then go riding around until sundown without fear of being attacked by some pervert.
I look forward to reading more good advice here!
Monte, Your so right. I remember the days when I went out all day and there were no cell phones, parents had no idea where ya were. Too bad the world has changed. See at least we can agree on safety. I have some more security tips I’m working on and any imput would be appreciated. ………Steve
See at least we can agree on safety.
Oh, yes!
I could argue about politics with you for hours and express opinions that will make you a little hot under the collar (and vice versa), but at the end of the day, we’re both people who have families and friends who we love and want to keep safe.
Monte……We’ll always have Paris…umm, I mean safety….
Steve just added three more tips on ATM security to his page, “Steve’s Security.” Check it out!
Steve, I like your tip about using the credit choice for your card vs. the debit card. I did not know that such a choice would be wise. Thank you. And again, thank you for all of the invaluable safety and security advice! (Brought to mind my dislike of parking garages when I used to do a lot of work at law firms. Used to scare the hell out of me!)
Steve, what do you make of “pinching in sensitive areas”? In the self defense classes I’ve taken, they have suggested pinching in highly sensitive areas, i.e., the inside of thighs and upper arms. If you try pinching yourself in these areas, it is very painful! I wonder though how successful it would be in a real life situation. In your experience, is this very effective?
DCG, I’ve taken numerous Martial arts classes, not to master, just to learn certain one move take downs, take aways…guns , knives, I asked for street Situations. I once was put in a choke hold, (In Real life) I on my Back , and opponent on stomach like his head to mine. I could not break it. I kept pulling on arms just to breath, but if I let go to try and grab him or the knife on my belt I was gonna pass out/die. Luckily a friend kind of persuaded him off……LOL. OK….The point is Just about every Martial artist I asked about that situation(Yea it stuck with me) All said the same thing) Rat Bites. or Pinches They said I should have grabed his forearm ( It does not have to be a sensitive area ,as trust me I have had these done to me hurt like hell) And did like a 4 finger pinch . Pulling your fingers down across the skin so as to stretch it and getting to just a little bit between your fingers and palm. All the Masters Allowed me the pleasure of feeling it as we assumed same position as I was attacker….LOL.. I let go every time. But they also took there place as I was able to apply the “Rat bite and to a one they let go. So that was a very long winded . Yes they are most effective, to any part of body, but it’s more for breaking a hold, and then sticking your finger in his eye kind of thing….it’s not gonna incapacitate….just give you a second to either flee, or hurt him in some way. Hope this makes sense. Have you ever heard of a Kubaton. Great self defense weapon. About 5 -10 bucks. like a big key chain. Strike any part of body and crunch.it’s awesome and legal…although court house won’t let me through…lol.most people have know Idea. Here a link. You want the pointy ended ones….More power contained in a smaller area. They have a vid on site check it ot. I’m going to be including all this stuff is one of my reports on weapons..Leathal/ Non Leathal. I have no interest in any site. I just googled and this came up. I used to several yrs back have an online sec biz. Stunguns, mace..etc..but no more just to to be open about any recomendation I may make. I have no affiliation with anyone.
http://kubajitsu.com/tapered.html
Steve
great, thanks for the link! Gonna get me one.
Or,2,3,4 …LOL, My Wife and Mom carry one…
I am a strong believer in shoot first and ask questions later.
In today’s world, if you shoot second, you might not be around to ask any questions later.
Far better to be tried by 12 than carried out by 6.
And don’t go near an ATM. Use the cash-back option at the grocery store or some other retailer.
-Dave
Dave, I to0 am of the mind set it is better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6. Also he who acts first wins and he who reacts loses. With that said, in some of my tips I have said if the scumbag lowlife has the drop on ya, and even if you’re carrying, you’ll never get to it in time. So give it up. You can replace anything except your life. I know I have one post on ATM safety, but somewhere in there, I’ve added it is best to use a retailer to get cash back…..I think I added it.
I live in Fla, and have a CCW and we have a lovely law called “Stand your Ground,” which means in the face of a threat we have no duty to retreat like in most other states…….It’s a beautiful thing…..LOL
Steve
Steve,
Thanks for all the tips–I love them. I think my nine millimeter works pretty good too.
Ron
Ron, Glad ya like the tips. I wrote up about 30 or so a few yrs ago and I’ve been dusting them off and adding a little to them and putting a little humor in. I think Eowyn has a couple ready. She drops em now and then and then I edit a few more. I too like my 9 MM It’s a Taurus arms……Don’t know if you ever checked them out , but has a very unique firing system. Everything is internal. No hammer outside so ya could drive nails with it and it won’t go off. Holds 13 I think + 1 . Very slim and weighs 16 oz’s. Leaves no print as I carry in a pancacke inside my pants. I live in Fla so every yahoo has a CCW……..LOL. They have a complete line of pistols called their carry line in every calliber. Check em out. I used to carry a Barretta 92 F , found it Bulky after a while..love this though….check the link………Steve
http://www.taurususa.com/gun-selector-results.cfm?series=CC1&toggle=tp
MY 9mm is a S&W 15 in the mag and 1 up the pipe, but since I’ve gotten older and weaker I can only get 13 in the mag. I have five mags so I can load the thing pretty fast. I too live in Florida but decided not to get the permit for concealed. Maybe the next time I go to a concert I might just get the permit. The last time I was there someone got mugged. I’m getting too old to put up much of a fight.
Ron
Ron, that is so funny, cause I don’t think any of my mags are full…….those last one or two are a bitch……..LOL. You should get your carry,,,,,,,,,really easy, just in case they change the law or something, this way your grandfathered in. And knowing punkface……well. It’s just a 4 hour class. …Steve
Ron, PS. That’s half the reason I have it. I mean yes to protect my family, but I’d hate to come upon some horrible situation and not be able to do anything about it. Also do you know, if you read the statues that there are a whole list of different types of weapon you can carry concealed. I have a telescopic baton, large pepper spray…….and others that the permit covers.
Here’s first chap of Stat 790.06
790.06 License to carry concealed weapon or firearm.–
(1) The Department of Agriculture and Consumer Services is authorized to issue licenses to carry concealed weapons or concealed firearms to persons qualified as provided in this section. Each such license must bear a color photograph of the licensee. For the purposes of this section, concealed weapons or concealed firearms are defined as a handgun, electronic weapon or device, tear gas gun, knife, or billie, but the term does not include a machine gun as defined in s. 790.001(9). Such licenses shall be valid throughout the state for a period of 5 years from the date of issuance. Any person in compliance with the terms of such license may carry a concealed weapon or concealed firearm notwithstanding the provisions of s. 790.01. The licensee must carry the license, together with valid identification, at all times in which the licensee is in actual possession of a concealed weapon or firearm and must display both the license and proper identification upon demand by a law enforcement officer. Violations of the provisions of this subsection shall constitute a noncriminal violation with a penalty of $25, payable to the clerk of the court.
Ok…….no machine guns,,,,,,,,,,LOL
Steve, I took the class I just haven’t gotten the permit yet. You may be forcing me into it.
Ron
Ron, any permit or license is never bad to have…..unless you have to make license plates for the state…..LOL. Like I said you should see have the shit I have in my car…………
… I used to have an online Security Biz called Stunguns and Mace…….sold all kinds of self defense weapons. I got out, but kept a few for my self……..I keep finding stuff all over the car that I even forgot I put there……..LOL. Have you ever seen a Kubaton……It’s awesome. Best hand to hand weapon. Martial Arts masters do all kinds of tricks…..I use mine as a Key ring….get one, about five bucks……….alls you do is hit and jab and bones break, no technique required……LOL..I’ll find a link…Make sure you get the tapered end. All that thrust into a single strike area …Youch anywhere…on bone it breaks..so sad to bad, and with keys on back it’s double sided………Oh yea, get your permit. I don’t carry a lot, but I find I carry more then I thought.
http://www.selfdefenseproducts.com/Tapered-Aluminum-Kubotan-p-16945.html
I don’t think I’ve ever heard of a Kubaton. I took a course in self defense in the military while going through desert training. There were a few things I learned about putting a man down. I have a book out called ‘Under the Berlin Wall.’ It’s a story about a GI who did Crypto espionage. The book tells quite a bit about what it takes to go into certain countries and gather information from their short range radios. Unfortunately the publisher was not a very credible one so the book did not get edited properly, and while a number of copies have sold I have only seen a couple of royalty checks. But the book is out on the market so at least my name gets promoted. I have another book I’m trying to get published about an agent who knows certain things about the art of fighting. I also took a course in Karate, but I refused a belt level. I also was a professional boxer–47 fights, mostly low class so I never got a good ranking. My brother, in his day was quite good. I was second runner up US army welter and middle weight, but my brother held the titles. I would have lost if I ever stepped in the ring with him.
I did much better as a pro—just did it for the money. I also did some back behind the alley street fighting, no holds barred type, when I was younger and made pretty good money doing that. Even the cops came and watched but they never busted us. It wasn’t worth their bother. Besides, I knew most of them and they looked the other way.
Now I’m just an old fart that my kids laugh at.
Ron
Ron, wow what a storied life…….alas I too led some wild adventures, but now the kid just laughs at me too………..groan………..
Steve,
Yesterday one of my boys read something I wrote on the blog and he came into my office and said.
“You know, I don’t think anyone really understands the depth of your thought.”
That’s one of the few time he’s given me any credit. Sometimes I wonder about him.
The other day he compared me to Beethoven—Wow! I think he wants something.Haha
Ron, this can’t be one of the children you have described before is it? Or perhaps maybe either you have not given them enough credit, or they have seen the light. Either way congrats, cause that is a beautiful thing. That must make ya feel about 10 feet tall and pretty darn proud of your Son. Or as you say…….he’s setting ya up and wants something…..LOL…just kidding. I like this story…….Kule…made my day, Thanks
Steve,
Remember Jesus said, “A man is not without honor except in his own home…”
I’ve been married enough times to have 6 children. My first two wives have passed on to bigger and better things. My 3rd wife and I have never had a fight or an argument–only because I learned how to say, ‘Yes Ma’am’. My oldest child– is 56 years old and my youngest in the Navy is 25 . The one in the Navy is the one who told me all my knowledge is irrelevant. I have another boy who just turned 30. He just moved back home from Denver..He’s the one who compared me to Beethoven.
I’m a firm believer that any child you raise that doesn’t go to prison, get into drugs, and actually becomes a meaningful adult must be a great child.
I may not agree with their philosophies but I give them the credit they deserve.
My son in the Navy was went to state as a runner and his team took state in the mile relay. He is a SAR swimmer assigned to the USS Gravely, a new ship not yet commissioned. He is combat trained, made it through Dive school, and completed SEAL Basic. He is currently an E-5 and up for promo to E-6. He has followed in my footsteps and gotten into electronics–that’s why he’s always asking me questions. I made it though an electronics engineering school. He is also trained as a diesel mechanic and a generator tech. I am very proud of this one even if he does think I’m obsolete.
To the man with 3 sons, Ron, one of them a Navy SAR crew member:
“The competition to become a SAR swimmer is keen. If selected, you attend five weeks of aircrew school, four weeks of SAR school, and then specific training for the type of helicopter in which you will fly. To enter the aircrew/SAR program, you must come from the aviation community, meaning your rating must be an air rating. You also must be at least a level two swimmer and pass an extensive flight physical. SAR training encompasses many areas, including lifesaving, first aid and knowledge of rescue devices. The training also includes towing a “victim” 800 meters, a very grueling exercise.”
No mention of “SEAL Basic” (BUD/S). Are you SURE of that part?
http://www.navy.mil/search/display.asp?story_id=7152
Ron, I think it was Churchill who said ” If your 20 and not a Liberal, you have no Heart. And if your 40 and not a Conservative you have no brains.” Sounds like the 30 yr old is on his way in the right direction . I lost my Father when I was 18 and man he was a smart guy….he died at 49. I missed so much cause I was a wise ass teenager and thought I knew everything. I did go to him and respect him when I needed him. At 18 you are so trying to be independent…..I wish I had more with him later.When my brain could have appreciated what he had to really offer……like you have now….count your blessings..they know what they have…….and are starting to realize…some it’s hard for them to admit, but you know how they feel.
Hello Steve. Interesting posts One of the areas of interest that I have studied is Body Language. Have you considered a post on Body Language related to security. Do you have any suggestions for reading material. I have read. “The Gift of Fear” by DeBecker, and I recommend it to EVERYONE
Guilty Gov………Very interesting to me too. I do not think I could do a post in the space allotted on such a nuanced subject. The best I have tried to do is tell people to wake up. (Condition Yellow) and to trust their instinct, because it is usually right. I think you need to do some study on the subject. I have taken a few classes and watched lot’s of film on subject. After a while it becomes real easy to spot Waldo….LOL. The bad guy always sticks out as he is always doing something that the ordinary person is not doing. Case in point, I’ve seen films that were not released to public on Reagan shooting which shows Hinkly straight ahead. The whole time everyone in crowd is staring straight ahead and looking and waiting for Reagan. Hinkley is so squirly looking left, right. The reason Reagan got shot in my opinion was the 2 agents assigned to the line there did 2 things wrong….they did not pick him up (Visually), and more importantly, in the film you clearly see when Reagan exits the 2 agents actually turn around and look at Reagan………OMG……never ever,do your eyes leave that crowd. At that point Hinkly looks for security once more, and the rest is History. I have met Gavin de Becker and is a real nice Guy. We needed his advice on one of my clients as the threat level had increase dramatically. His resources are tremendous…….so is his bill….LOL. His book is terrific and any one interested in this field it is a must read. I have been out of the field now about 10 yrs, but to this day I still watch everything and everybody…..I guess like a game to keep skills sharp, But ya never know, like I said If it doesn’t feel , or look right……it’s probably not. So what I’m saying it’s something you need to learn, and it’s not hard , and then you can practice it everyday, like me as a game . It will hone your skills in no time and if a time ever comes you will know if it’s fight or flight time…….Steve
I’ve read Gavin DeBecker’s book, The Gift of Fear, as well. (It’s available as an inexpensive pocket book.) Highly recommend.
DeBecker’s main message is that we should trust our intuition, which I believe is our Guardian Angel communicating with us. As Steve said, if something/someone doesn’t feel right, trust your inner sense! Females especially must resist our culturally-conditioned impulse to “be nice.” ALWAYS listen to your intuition.
As an example, infamous serial killer Ted Bundy pretended to be disabled, wearing a fake cast on his arm. On at least two occasions, young women (coeds at U. of Washington) saw him “fumbling” with his books and actually volunteered to help him load the books into his VW. That was one way Bundy found his victims.
This, in my judgment, is the greatest EVIL: Not only did he enjoy torturing and killing his victims, some of his victims were lured because of their GOODNESS — their compassion for and attempt to help someone they thought was disabled.
Those poor young women ignored the warning from their inner voice/intuition that something was not right, and paid with their lives….
So what Basically what Eowyn is saying is screw every body..don’t ever help cause the hole world is nut’s……..especially if it’s a 90 yr old women who’s just fallen in traffic…….that’s the latest ruse the 90 yr olds use now………..LOL. Just kidding. Women especially really have no need to help a man, unless he is elderly…Men can take care of themselves. Unfortunately there is the sick trend of Couples doing bad things….so you have to watch out for young women too. Unless you see her fall and get hurt or hit by a car….a young healthy woman knows how to call someone or get the police. I know it’s cold and calloused of me, but you just don’t know who ya can trust. Each situation is diff, so use your instinct and if any doubt, you can always just call the police from your car and report what you see and keep going….you know help is on it’s way….and your on your way to your loved ones.
Thanks to open borders, immigration and amnesty (the Arizona illegal immigration laws are supported by a majority of the Country) and the liberal media and Obama have chosen to Sue AZ. Thus depriving AZ. the right to defend it’s borders and do the Job Obama refuses to do.
I find that disgusting. Oh and by the way I support Israel.
Hi! Just wanna say I like your posting.
I think it’s interesting..
Surely, i will read your next postings.Keep up the good work!!
HealthChoice, Thanks. Sorry I haven’t Added anything in a while, just that with all hell breaking loose I haven’t found the time to edit a few pieces I have ready…I’ll try and make a point of it this week. Thanks for reminding me. And welcome to the Fellowship.
Steve
Keep your head up and on a swivel..
No more than brief eye contact (more like a swipe) note peoples positions/action then move on.
Control what you reveal in your face . Show neither anger nor fear.
Buy a hammerless snub nosed 357/38 carry 38 HPs. Get some solid training on how to use it.. (Forget any fancy firearms they are all crap unless you can instinctually perform an immediate action drill.. tear them down and reassemble them in your sleep while hanging upside down with a blindfold on..
Wear it all the time (even at home) and be committed to using it in the lawful defense of yourself and or those you care for.
If you “do not trust yourself with a gun” neither do I nor will I make an effort to defend you or yours unless I perceive it is my best interests.
Women.. do not feign helplessness. if you are unwilling to defend yourself why should I bother.
Young Men do not look for trouble.. you will find it.
Do not pick a fight with an old man who cannot. If he is too old to fight he really will just kill you.
Nick
Steve,
Great addendum but I think Talmudhater has some serious problems.
Nick, good advice and I can see you have been professionally trained. The only argument I might have is about the Women. I mean I would hope if you saw my Mom who is 78 in a jam you would step up, as I would do the same. I esp like the advice about the older man, You are so right….they will just shoot you……there’s several on this blog that come to mind……..
Steve
Hey, nice site you have here! Keep up the good work
Vandal Dome, let me guess…..your in the biz….LOL. Thanks for the Compliment. Steve
Hey guys, this good wook!
Network,
Thanks!
Steve
Hey, thanks Steve.
Some good information and easy to follow.
Condition Yellow, always.
Ed, Thanks. Condition yellow will get ya home at night.
Steve
Very delightful blog, founder a super servant! Desing is imperturbable!
Skynbync, Thanks..I think.LOL
We need a translator for Skynbync! LOL
I think this blog is swell.
Joshua, Thank you very much.
Steve
I just stumbled on to this,you are the best Steve!!!
tina, you have been out slaying the trolls to long..LOL take a moment and look around..LOL
your right Steve,there is a wealth of information here and I appreciate all of it.
Why gee shucks Mam, we are but just your humble servants.
If accosted at an ATM enter your pin backwards eg 1234, put in 4321. This will give you out money but will also alert the bank who will alert the cops instantly. The scumbags may with a bit of luck be caught red handed.
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You are most welcome, Sadye, so long as you credit the source!
Nice dude, you’re the man.
Belts, Thank you. Anything you care to add? Simple street technique maybe. May I ask what style your belt is in?
Steve